Being a mom is hard work and no one knows that better than other moms. Make another mom’s life a little easier with this list of Simple Acts of Kindness for Moms from Moms.
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Take pictures of her kids
As moms, we want to be a part of every fun thing our child gets to experience but often times that isn’t possible. Make another mom’s day by texting her a picture of her child having fun at a birthday party, on a field trip, at a sporting event, or doing any other activity that she is unable to attend. She will appreciate seeing the memory her child is making. If the mom is a casual acquaintance you should be polite and ask if it would be ok to take and text pictures. And make sure you always ask for permission before posting pictures of other children on social media!
Write a note of praise
Take a few moments to write a short note praising her child for being kind or helpful and thank the mom for doing such a good job with her kids. Raising decent human beings is hard sometimes and everyone could use some extra encouragement! Keep some inexpensive notecards in your house and your car so you can jot down a note as soon as you think of it.
Make a meal
There are some days when feeding our family is the last thing we have time for. When you do have time, take a few extra minutes to make a double batch of the casserole or soup you’re making and deliver it to your friend. One of my favorite things to do is to take a meal kit of sloppy joes & buns, french fries or chips, salad & salad dressing, and brownies to moms who have just had a baby or are dealing with an illness. I use a plastic bin and disposable serving containers from Dollar Tree then add some fun labels for an extra special touch.
Give a small gift
Everyone likes gifts and there are days when a mom just needs something to lift her up. If you know a mom who is struggling and overwhelmed, give her a small gift as well as a note of encouragement. It doesn’t have to be expensive. An inspirational book, flowers, a candle or some essential oils will let her know you’re thinking of her and that you’re both in this “mom thing” together!
Offer to run errands
We’ve all had those times where we’re making dinner and realize we’re missing a key ingredient or that our husband used the last roll of toilet paper without telling us. Adding a trip to the store to an already busy day can often push a mom over the edge. Ease the burden by offering to pick up some items for her while you’re out. A quick text when you’re on your way to the store might just save the day! You could also offer to pick up dry cleaning, drop off library books, or take donated items to the thrift store. Whatever errands you need to run for the day, reach out to another mom and see if she has any of those errands on her list. Of course, some of these work best when your mom friend lives near you since it’s not always practical to go too far out of your way to help, but look for opportunities to help when you can.
Schedule Playdates
If you know a mom who is going through a particularly hard time, schedule a playdate at your house to give her a break. Your kids will have fun playing with other kids and the mom will be grateful for some extra free time.
Offer to carpool
Parents are always heading in a hundred different directions each week and juggling practices and lessons can be challenging if not impossible on some days. Offer to pick up and take her child to practice with you or suggest driving him home so she doesn’t have to make a separate trip. Many moms schedule this in advance but be on the lookout for times when you can offer last-minute help if plans change. She will appreciate the help and will most likely reciprocate in the future!
Tip
Moms are notorious for not asking for or accepting help. This means you might have to be sneaky in the way you offer. Instead of saying “would you like me to watch Sophia so you can get some things done?” say “We’re going to be making cookies. Can Sophia come over and help?” Instead of “Would you like me to pick up the kids from karate tonight?” say “I plan on staying for karate tonight. I can bring Sam home with me if that’s ok”. A mom is more willing to take you up on your offer if she knows she is not being a burden to you.
These are just a few of the ways you can make life a little easier for other moms. I’d love to hear if you have any other suggestions. Please let me know in the comments below.
Looking for more ways to spread kindness?
Summer of Kindness – 75 Random Acts of Kindness To Do With Your Kids This Summer
Kindness Rocks – A Fun Family Activity
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what great ideas sometimes it is those individuals that seem to have it all put together that appreciate a gift like this the most
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That’s a great point! Every single one of us can use some encouragement regardless of how things appear on the outside. I’m heading over to check out your blog now. Thanks for stopping by!
These are such sweet ideas! I especially love the gift basket/dinner idea. Pinned.
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I absolutely loved it when other moms brought me meals after I had a baby! This is something I always try to do for those around me as well because it’s something so easy to do that can really be beneficial to others.
Yes! It is so easy to do and makes a big difference to moms when they need it most. Thank you for stopping by!